Frequently Asked Questions

Counsellor Training

Who should register for Counsellor Training?

Counsellor Training is for You …

    • If you are Compassionate about the needs of others
    • If people often seek you out for help
    • If you want to serve as a caregiver/counsellor in your community
    • If you have a teachable spirit
    • If you are prepared to grow and develop
    • If you are already in a care-giving ministry and need specialised training
The Higher Certificate in Christian Counselling is specifically developed for individual caregivers who want to equip themselves as para-professional counsellors. If you want to be better prepared for serving as counsellor in your community or church, this training will empower you for your ministry. The training is especially suited for all lay counsellors – pastors, elders, youth workers, community care providers, NGO workers, and anyone who would like to be better equipped. The Professional Track provides training for competent individuals who want to become professional and specialized Christian counsellors. The B.Th. with a Focus on Christian Counselling is a three-year structured graduate degree. Students gain a unique perspective on the counselling discipline as they learn to integrate theology and psychology in a Christ centered, biblically based, Spirit led, and psychologically sound synergy. The B.Th. Honours with a Focus on Christian Counselling is a one-year structured postgraduate degree that builds on the three-year B.Th.. Student-counsellors will choose the B.Th. Honours in Christian Counselling for the purpose of completing an internship and pursuing licencing as a Professional Christian Counsellor. The Honours program serves as a bridge between bachelor’s level coursework and master’s level research in Christian Counselling and it provides the required internship to meet the supervised clinical hours for registration. The purpose of the Graduate Programs (B.Th., B.Th. Honours, and M.Th.) with a focus on Christian Counselling is to fulfil the mission of the Seminary while training of professional specialized counsellors. Godly Christian leaders are nurtured to serve God and people as pastoral counsellors, professional specialized counsellors, and caregivers in their local church environment and communities.

Are the Paraklesis materials (enrichment courses, forms, information sheets etc) copyrighted?

Yes. The contents of the Paraklesis Website and all Paraklesis lectures, course materials, seminars, and training modules are Copyrighted (Copyright © Paraklesis) unless otherwise specified.

All Paraklesis Counselling  services, products and content thereof is provided with the understanding that it will only be used for the purposes indicated, and that it will not be copied or distributed or disclosed to third parties without the expressed written consent of Dr Mervin & Hildegard van der Spuy.

All Rights Reserved.

Does my personal information remain confidential with your website?

The Paraklesis website and all the services offered offer the best protection we can online. Please review the Paraklesis  Confidentiality and Privacy Policy.

Paraklesis Counselling protects your personal information by making careful security arrangements against such risks as unauthorized access, collection, use, disclosure, or disposal. Security measures have been integrated into the design, implementation, and day-to-day operating practices as part of Paraklesis’ continuing commitment to the protection of personal information it holds.

Please take note: Clients are responsible for the protection of their own privacy as end-user on the computer they use to access the Paraklesis site, send and receive e-mails etc.

What is meant with “faith based” training?

There are many ‘faith based” approaches to counselling training — some totally rejecting the integration of psychology and/or totally ’spiritualising’ the counselling, others reduce all counselling to just one aspect, while others have moved to a secular postmodern spirituality.

Paraklesis courses strive to remain balanced in a faith based integrative approach – recognising the importance of biological (medical), psychological (emotions, cognition and behaviour), social (family and community), and spiritual (faith and religion) factors.

Although Paraklesis is based on a philosophical and theological foundation of faith based counselling training and adheres to a Christian worldview, we are respectful of individual’s own faith perspective and understanding our practice is psychologically sound.

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Are the Paraklesis materials (enrichment courses, forms, information sheets etc) copyrighted?

Yes. The contents of the Paraklesis Website and all Paraklesis lectures, course materials, seminars, and training modules are Copyrighted (Copyright © Paraklesis) unless otherwise specified.

All Paraklesis Counselling  services, products and content thereof is provided with the understanding that it will only be used for the purposes indicated, and that it will not be copied or distributed or disclosed to third parties without the expressed written consent of Dr Mervin & Hildegard van der Spuy.

All Rights Reserved.

Does my personal information remain confidential with your website?

The Paraklesis website and all the services offered offer the best protection we can online. Please review the Paraklesis  Confidentiality and Privacy Policy.

Paraklesis Counselling protects your personal information by making careful security arrangements against such risks as unauthorized access, collection, use, disclosure, or disposal. Security measures have been integrated into the design, implementation, and day-to-day operating practices as part of Paraklesis’ continuing commitment to the protection of personal information it holds.

Please take note: Clients are responsible for the protection of their own privacy as end-user on the computer they use to access the Paraklesis site, send and receive e-mails etc.

Counselling /Therapy

What is a “Mental Health Emergency”?

We are committed to the principles of compassionate care and therapeutic excellence, but because of the nature of especially online therapy and therapy in general, we are not able to ensure your safety at all times. It is therefore important for you to know what to do in the event of an emergency or crisis.

Please review the Emergency & Safety Plan

An emergency is a situation where risk to self or others exist.  Only seeking online counselling is insufficient in emergency situations. Please find additional help during any mental health emergency.

  • If you experience a life threatening situation and/or if abused
  • If you have thoughts of hurting or killing yourself
  • If you have thoughts of hurting or killing another person
  • If you have a recent history of suicidal, violent or abusive behaviour
  • If you hold what others may consider unrealistic beliefs (delusions)
  • If you see or hear things that others don’t (hallucinations)
  • If you are currently addicted to, and/or abusing alcohol or drugs

If you are experiencing a life-threatening emergency or crisis:

  • Immediately phone 911
  • Or go directly to the nearest emergency room or hospital
  • You may also contact a crisis or suicide hotline
  • Contact your support person(s)

What is Therapy? What is Psychotherapy? What is Treatment?

There is no generally accepted distinction between counselling and psychotherapy. There are well founded traditions which use the terms interchangeably and others which distinguish between them.We use the terms interchangeably.

In general, the term “therapy” or “treatment” is associated with the process of healing or recovering. Psychotherapy is mostly an interpersonal and personal process which aims to help people understand and better cope with conditions, emotions or perceptions, and empower them on their path to wellness.

A Therapeutic Relationship exists when a qualified healthcare provider is contracted by a client to provide diagnosis and/or treatment.

A psychologist studies how we think, feel and behave from a scientific viewpoint and applies this knowledge to help people understand, explain and change their behavior (Canadian Psychological Association). In Alberta, Psychologist are registered and regulated by the College of Alberta Psychologists (CAP).

What is the difference between a counsellor, therapist, psychologist, and psychiatrist?

Psychiatrists are medical doctors who have specialised in psychiatry and are therefore licensed by their perspective medical boards or colleges to practice medicine, do psychotherapy, and prescribe medication.

Psychologists are mostly PhD clinical professionals (in some countries/states/provinces there are still masters level psychologists) who are licensed by their perspective psychology boards or colleges to practice.

A psychologist studies how we think, feel and behave from a scientific viewpoint and applies this knowledge to help people understand, explain and change their behavior (Canadian Psychological Association). In Alberta, Psychologist are registered and regulated by the College of Alberta Psychologists (CAP).

Joshua Adams is a Registered Psychologist with the College of Alberta Psychologists (CAP). His registration number is 4844. His area is “Clinical/ Counselling Psychology.

Counsellors are professional therapists, normally requiring a masters level academic training. They utilise a variety of healing (therapeutic) methods to help people handle their problems and crisis more growthfully and thus experience healing of their brokenness.

About Paraklesis

When was Paraklesis Counselling founded?

Paraklesis Counselling was founded in 1992 by Dr Mervin and Hildegard van der Spuy to provide compassionate care-giving with therapeutic excellence. Together they’ve presented the Paraklesis counselling training, self-enrichment courses and seminars. Dr Mervin has provided the professional counselling in his private practice while pursuing his career as a professor of counselling psychology. After retiring from full-time teaching at the end of 2010, Dr Mervin has returned to a part-time private practice and Online Counselling.

In 2018 Dr Mervin retired from his private practice and is pleased Joshua (Registered Psychologist) took over the practice.

Dr Mervin’s counselling training focus has shifted from training professional (Masters-level) counsellors, to equipping and training lay-counsellors and community workers. Specifically by teaching the Higher Certificate in Christian Counselling at the South African Theological Seminary.

What does “Paraklesis” mean?

The concept is derived from the Greek term for the Holy Spirit (Parakletos), the Counsellor, the Helper, the Advocate and Comforter.  The Holy Spirit is the primary Helper (Counsellor) who facilitates spiritual and personal development in people and helps them to grow into wellbeing.

“Parakletos” (Greek), literally means Advocate… one called or sent for to assist another; an advocate, one who pleads the cause of another, one present to render various beneficial service.

We believe that the central and pivotal mode of care-giving is “Paraklesis” – coming alongside.

Emulating this, we want to come alongside people in need.

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